How to Reach Your Financial Goals

Reach Your Financial Goals | My tips for paying off debt, save for a big purchase, or save for the future | MoneywiseMoms

Have you set a large financial goal? Whether it’s buying a house, traveling abroad, saving for retirement, or paying off debt, you have to start small.

Every little step makes a difference. Start TODAY to reach your financial goals.

As you may know from reading MoneywiseMoms over the past few years, we went through a lot of ups and downs during the years where we paid off $87,000 in debt. Our next big financial goal is savings–having a large emergency fund on hand and saving up for retirement–but the same small steps apply.

Here are the small steps we’ve used for our success. They’ll work whether you’re paying debt, saving up for a big purchase or trip, or saving for your future (like us!).

Pay Yourself First
With each paycheck, pay debt (or savings) first, then live off the rest. This shows your commitment to reaching your goal. After years of setting financial goals and “saying” we were going to tackle our debt, this one change made the most difference for my husband and me. Once we had the money automatically paying out, we had forward momentum. Now that our debt is paid off, we’re paying ourselves first by contributing to an emergency fund and retirement savings before living expenses.

Use a Monthly Budget
Rather than dread a written monthly budget, use it as the tool it is to help you achieve your monthly financial goals. Give every dollar a home: What’s it for? How will it be used? For us, “extra” money always seemed to disappear. By knowing our spending categories and where the rest of the money is going (debt payoff, saving up for a vacation, etc.), we stay on track.

Budget for Fun
Give yourself (and your spouse) some fun money each month. When it’s part of the budget, you can have the occasional splurge without feeling deprived. We allow small amounts of money for entertainment, outings, and personal money (which means spend it on whatever you want and the other spouse can’t complain). Allowing these splurges makes sticking to the rest of the budget do-able and keeps your motivation up.

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Disclosure: This is a sponsored post on behalf of  BarclayCard US. I received compensation for this post, however all opinions stated are my own.

Sharing my Debt Payoff Story – No Fooling!

I’m on page 102-3 of the March issue of Redbook Magazine sharing my debt payoff story–woot woot! The issue has a whole financial section that includes money secrets, how to spend a tax refund, ways to live richly, strategies for saving, and money-saving apps. I’m in Zero Debt: You can do this! and was thrilled to be a part of it. There isn’t an online version, so you’ll just have to check it out in print.

March Redbook | Sharing my Debt Payoff Story | MoneywiseMoms

If you’ve been reading MoneywiseMoms the past few years, you know exactly how we paid off $87,000 in a little over two years–with me side hustling to earn extra income doing anything I could, buckling down and living on a tight budget, and looking for the light at the end of the tunnel. We started by setting financial goals back in 2009 and working for years to get on the same page (it’s hard!). We finally took on the debt seriously in 2011, and now we’re debt-free except for our mortgage and working on our emergency fund and retirement savings.

Do you want to earn extra money to put towards debt or savings?

  • Sign up with Swagbucks to earn FREE Amazon gift cards (extra bonus if you sign up by April 5th). With a little time, you can earn hundreds of dollars to extend your budget.
  • Sell your clutter at now that it’s Yard Sale season. Team up with your neighbors or church group to increase traffic, and bring in hundreds of dollars for a few hours of work.
  • Instead of physically having a yard sale, sell on a Neighborhood Facebook Group. Ours is hot right now, with many families doing spring cleaning and others buying up outgrown clothes and toys.
  • Earn FREE gas cards from MyPoints like I do every year.
  • Work your credit card’s cash back program. By utlizing promos, using the card for every purchase, and paying off the balance each month, we earn over $500 cash back on our credit card every year.
  • Offer a service in your neighborhood. Can you pet sit, house sit, do yard work, or offer another skill? Let others know you’re available. The money I’ve earned babysitting the past few years helped us pay off the debt.

Quarter One Update: 2014 Financial Goals

Every year, I share my family’s Financial Goals, then update them each quarter, both to hold us accountable and to inspire you to write out and achieve your own goals.

2014 Financial Goals: Quarter One Update | MoneywiseMoms

As I mentioned over the New Year, our 2014 Financial Goals are focused on savings–both emergency and retirement. So of course we’re being challenged already! Our beater car, a 15-year old Nissan, finally hit the tipping point where the repairs were way more than it was worth. Sigh. So we donated the car for a tax-deduction next year, and we’re living with one car. So far, it hasn’t been too much of an issue, though we will have to talk about how long we can last and balance that with the fact that we weren’t budgeted to buy a new-to-us used car this year. But back to the original plan and a Quarter One update:

1) Create an emergency fund with 6 months’ worth of expenses by March 31st. ONGOING

We were getting close, but now several big expenses are about to hit us. We owe income tax for the first time in over ten years, a combination of losing deductions with earning more and paying off debt (good problem, I keep telling myself) and forgetting to adjust our withholdings to reflect the changes. So that’s a good chunk of cash that we did not budget for when we wrote these goals up at the end of 2013. We also spent a lot on medical bills from when my husband broke his leg on the ice in December, including surgery, and we have a major plumbing problem we’re trying to resolve. I’m trying to focus on the fact that all of these things happen, whether or not you have the money, so at least we’re not also balancing all of our debt along with them!

2) Max out husband’s retirement contribution at work (ASAP) and open an IRA for me (by December). DONE

Now that I’m reviewing these goals, I’m not sure why I jumped ahead and did this. I think I wanted something to be done, permanent, and positive with all the upheaval we’ve been through the past few months. So I used some of the savings in #1 to open a 2013 IRA for me, which reduced our taxes greatly, and we went ahead and maxed out my husband’s retirement starting in January because we had been missing out on the matching funds. I know I need to accept that there will be ups & downs with unexpected expenses, and I can do my best to earn more to cover them, but there was no way to go back and get this earned money in retirement.

3) Work with a lawyer to get our will, trust and guardianship done by April 1st.  STARTED

We had our phone appointment with our lawyer last week and are working on the paperwork now. It is hard for most families to tackle because you’re discussing some unpleasant possibilities, but it’s really important! Learn more at 5 Myths about Writing a Will. This won’t be done by tomorrow but will be done soon!

4) Stick to our monthly budget to stay debt-free while covering expenses like taxes, a new couch, and trips.

Grrr–this is what bugged me last year when we couldn’t “do it all.” This was the year to do it all! But it’s already not happening. No “extra” expenses, like planning a summer vacation, can happen until we settle out #1 and the house repairs and other surprises get done. I’ve lamented about our couch before, and of course that’s not as important as financial stability and long-term savings and all, but it’s where we sit every single day, so it’s important in its own way. I’m going back to my penny-pinching ways to find more money in our budget each month to make these fun things happen.

How are you doing on your 2014 Financial Goals?

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Free State Tax Filing 2014

Good news! You may be eligible for FREE State Tax Filing through your state’s website. For some states, all residents are eligible. For others, you may need to meet a requirement, so read carefully when you reach your state’s tax website. This is a great way to save a little money during this stressful time of year–tax season! Even if you’re using an online program for your federal filing, you can stop at the federal filing, print out your return, then use that information to complete your FREE state tax filing through your state website below.

You may be eligible for FREE State Tax Filing through your state's website | MoneywiseMoms

States with FREE state income tax e-filing for for ALL filers:

States offering FREE state tax filing with income, age or other requirements:

And finally, states that do not require individual income tax filing (like Tennessee) do offer free e-filing of interest income and other taxable income.


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Disclosure: I am not a financial advisor or CPA and am not offering advice as such. My tax posts are informational and contain links for reference and verification.

The Geller Law Group $250 GC Giveaway {Get your Family’s Will done!}

As I mentioned in my 2014 Financial Goals, one of first tasks this year is getting our will, trust and guardianship taken care of for our family. It’s so important, and I want to encourage you to do this too–with a little help! If you haven’t yet, read about Writing a Will to see how you can take care of both your money and your children. If you have a child or other relative with special needs, learn how a special needs trust can help protect them. If you already have estate planning documents done, you may find that you need a Family Lawyer for another reason, such as incorporating your home business or drafting legal documents (for a nanny or rental).

 Get that will/trust done! Enter to win a $250 GC for legal services from The Geller Law Group (good in DC, MD, NC or VA) | MoneywiseMoms

The Geller Law Group is giving away fifty gift certificates each worth $250 toward legal services, and they can work with families in DC, Maryland, North Carolina and Virginia. {Please share this giveaway with your friends, family and neighbors in those states!} This is not the full amount needed to set up estate planning documents, but it should help quite a bit. Also, remember that you can work over the phone in order to make the task easier for you and your spouse.


If you are reading this in email, please click over to the blog to see the Rafflecopter widget. This giveaway ends Thursday, March 20th at midnight EST. This offer is only available to new clients of The Geller Law Group and residents of VA, MD, DC and NC. The gift certificates are valid for 60 days following the giveaway. Only one gift certificate per family.


Disclosure: The Geller Law Group is providing the prizes for this giveaway. I received a discount on my estate planning documents for the Family Lawyer Series, including this giveaway.

Protecting Family with a Special Needs Trust

Previously I shared some Myths about Writing a Will, including the reasons you might consider creating a trust to protect your children and your assets after you pass. If you have a child or relative with special needs, it’s even more important that you set up a special needs trust; it allows you to provide for the special needs individual who requires long-term medical needs or other support. Rebecca Geller, president of The Geller Law Group, shares her recommendations, shares her expertise below.

Protect your Child with a Special Needs Trust | MoneywiseMoms

How a Special Needs Trust Protects your Money

With a trust as a safe place to leave funds for a disabled or special needs child or relative, it also protects your money. If you are sued or get divorced, the funds inside a special needs trust cannot be part of those proceedings (as long as you create an irrevocable special needs trust).


How a Special Needs Trust Protects your Child/Relative

With a trust in place, any money your child or relative receives (such as an inheritance from a relative) that is placed in the trust will not be counted as a financial asset. This allows for government assistance and medical services to continue without disruption. Be sure to let your family members know about the trust so they do not give money directly to the child or relative with special needs.

Rebecca shared a case of a young man who received a surprise inheritance when his great aunt passed away; because there was no special needs trust set up to receive the funds, they became his, which pushed him over the limit of financial assets and reduced his social security benefits. The limit is usually quite low, frequently as low as $2,500. Basically, this means that if an individual with special needs inherits more than a certain amount (such as that $2,500), he/she will lose their benefits that provide services to help with their special needs.

Statutes say that as long as a special needs trust meet the U.S. Code requirement, it is not a countable resource for Social Security or Medicaid qualification purposes. State statutes vary, but special needs trusts are needed in most states to ensure that the individual’s special needs benefits are not jeopardized. Should you pass away without a will, your estate would go directly to your child and they would likely lose their eligibility for services.


When should I set up a Special Needs trust?

At any time that you realize your child or relative may not be capable of supporting him/herself or needs services to help with special needs, Rebecca recommends that you include a special needs trust in your estate planning. In this case, the recipient may be aged up to 65. If, in the future, the individual’s condition improves and is able to live independently, there is always the option to dissolve the trust. Because special needs trust laws vary from state-to-state, it is important to work with a qualified attorney to set up your trust.


How will my child use the Special Needs Trust?

Just as with any trust, the funds are designated to a trustee of your choosing (either the same person who becomes the child’s legal guardian or someone else). Even when a child or individual does not need federal or state public benefits/services, quality of life can be improved with the funds from a special needs trust.

Rebecca shares the story about her brother-in-law who has cerebral palsy. He is a quadriplegic and lives in a group home. Because he receives public benefits, Rebecca and her husband have created a special needs trust to distribute money to him so that he can have funds for some travel, entertainment, and his hobbies but ensuring that he continues to receive public benefits for his housing, health care, and aide.

To schedule your free initial phone consult to create your family’s legal documents, please contact The Geller Law Group via email at
rebeccagellerThe Family Lawyer Series is underwritten by The Geller Law Group, which is licensed to practice in Maryland, DC, Virginia and North Carolina. In exchange for the series, I am receiving discounted services to complete my own estate planning documents.

6 Ways to Fit a Tutor into your Family Budget

This is a guest post from Katie Bugbee, the senior managing editor and resident parenting expert of A busy working mother of two, she’s an expert on many parenting dilemmas, from appeasing picky eaters to finding the perfect babysitter.


There are many reasons your child could use a tutor: slumping grades, concept struggles, big test-prep, or fighting too much when you try to teach her. These are all excellent reasons to outsource extra help. But tutoring can be expensive, and if you haven’t budgeted the average $40 a session (about $15 for a college student, $20-50 for online, $75 for a certified teacher), into your family budget, we have some suggestions for working around the fees.

6 Ways to FIt a Tutor into your Family Budget | Tips from MoneywiseMoms and on how to manage when your child needs help

1) Use After-School Help

Teachers are often required to stay at the school after the day has ended to grade assignments or be available for students who need extra help. If this is the case, use this time to help your child catch up. This is a free way for your child to get one-on-one help and form a better relationship with her teacher. If possible, ask if you can join a few study sessions as well. If you learn the content with your child, you’ll become a valuable resource at home.

2) Find a Tutoring Center

Kaplan, Sylvan, and Kumon are some of the largest national companies that offer monthly tutoring packages. Buy a bundle that breaks down to under $30 a session. This option might be your best choice if you see that your child has struggled consistently with a specific subject like reading or math. Just check in on the curriculum to make sure it can be customized to your child’s needs, as much as possible.

3) Find a Combination Caregiver

Many babysitters and nannies would be more than happy to help your child with homework, as long as you emphasize this in the job description. You may have to pay the caregiver more, depending on the level of commitment necessary for the job, but it will still be cheaper than hiring a certified tutor. If your child is having organizational issues or trouble understanding the assignments, this could be the perfect option.

4) Choose Every Other Week

Maybe your child doesn’t need help every single day after school. They may only need help before a test to review their notes and fill in the gaps. If this is the case, you should schedule a tutor on a bi-weekly basis or just call to schedule a session when you need them. Be sure to communicate with your child’s teacher(s) to get all the upcoming tests and projects on your calendar in advance.

5) Name Your Rate

Use a tutor job posting site like to name your rate. That way, tutors with only the qualifications you specified who are comfortable with the price will apply. Be sure to look at resumes, references and background checks. Look for experience as well as a personality fit. High school students who charge $12/hr and are enthusiastic and relatable might be a better match than the $75/hr PhD certified instructor with 30+ years of experience. Try to gauge your child’s learning style and match them with a tutor who fits.

6) Form a Study Group

For many kids, small-group instruction can be a very beneficial form of learning. They can feel comfortable asking questions and have more of a hands-on learning experience with friends. Gather your child’s group together for a play date and invite the parents to stay and chat. You might be surprised at how many parents are concerned with their child’s success in school and would be open to forming a study group together. Although tutors will charge more for a group, it still may be cheaper to split the total between a few families.

What suggestions do you have for finding the perfect tutoring relationship?

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2014 Financial Goals (from Debt to Savings)

Every year, I have shared my family’s Financial Goals, then updated them each quarter, both to hold us accountable and also to inspire you to write out and achieve your own goals.

2014 Financial Goals  | MoneywiseMoms

With our big accomplishment last year (paying off all debt except our mortgage), we’re focusing our 2014 Financial Goals on savings–both emergency and retirement. Since we were socking away so much towards debt all last year (over 40% of my husband’s take-home pay), we are optimistic that we can achieve all of this year’s goals. Just keep that in mind the next time Murphy hits my house! Because you know it’s coming…

1) Create an emergency fund with 6 months’ worth of expenses by March 31st.

Between the scrambling over no-cash-flow we did after our debt payoff and the government shutdown last October, this emergency fund is first-and-foremost in our minds. It’s very hard to set aside this much money and not be working towards our other goals yet, but we know how important it is. Since there’s a third paycheck in January, it can go directly to this goal, and our only known obstacle right now is a huge tax bill (we didn’t change our withholdings and with the debt paid off, we don’t have as many deductions–oops).

2) Max out husband’s retirement contribution at work (ASAP) and open an IRA for me (by December).

While we know that putting money into husband’s retirement account at work keeps us from accomplishing goal #1 as quickly, we have been losing out on the matching funds that it offers, so we went ahead and signed him up to start with the first paycheck of the year. Since opening an IRA for me is less time-dependent (we can deposit the maximum of $5,500/yr anytime between now and March of 2015 for it to count for 2014), we’ll start that later in the year and just work our way up to that maximum.

We did make the decision NOT to put any money into a 2013 IRA for me (which can be done up until Tax Day this April), because we just don’t have the cash for it.

3) Work with a lawyer to get our will, trust and guardianship done by April 1st.

We did our will and guardianship right after we had the twins, but now we’d like to set up a trust for our children  per the suggestions in this post about writing a will. Now that our kids are older, we have a lot of thoughts about how we’d prefer they use our money, should we not be here during that time of their lives. If you haven’t done a will yet, I strongly recommend you make it a 2014 goal!
4) Stick to our monthly budget to stay debt-free while covering expenses like taxes, a new couch, and trips.

Now that we’re debt-free, it has been challenging getting used to it. We’ve both been fighting the urge to splurge, instead sitting down frequently to talk about our monthly expenses and how we’re using the money that went towards debt this year in a different way. Unfortunately, we’re still not “seeing” it; the money now goes to savings instead of to our wallets, so it’s still no fun. However, having those large debts gone makes a difference to us psychologically, and they let us move ahead with our family goals.

Since I budget our months on two bi-weekly paychecks, the two “extra” checks each year are truly extra–January’s will go towards the emergency fund while August’s will be for a family vacation (barring major house repairs or other disaster, obviously). My husband and I are attending a wedding in California in September, too, so we have some unusual things happening this year to plan for financially. And we never did get a new couch last year; our 12-year-old hunk-o-junk is still bursting springs and smells pretty funky. Not sure what month that will happen, but it does need to happen. It’s goals like the couch that make skipping meals out and entertainment in the short term worth it in the long run.

What are your 2014 Financial Goals?

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Financial Goals Update: Quarter 4

Financial Goals Update: Quarter 4 Review | MoneywiseMoms

Here we are at the end of 2013, with probably the best financial goals update in all the years I’ve been doing this! I actually went back and looked at our goals since 2009, and I want you to know that the whole becoming debt-free thing really started back then. It started with the very first time we sat down together to set big-picture goals instead of just looking at our month-to-month spending. Even though we didn’t start paying our debt down until late 2011, it wouldn’t have happened without those years of working together, struggling together, and reviewing our progress. You can do it, too!

Here is the final Financial Goals update for 2013:

  1. Pay off student loan debt by the end of July. DONE!
    This was huge, and it took a long time and a lot of hard work, but it was SO worth it. We paid off the remaining $24,000 by mid-August.
  2. Fully fund our emergency fund with 3 months of salary by the end of December. ONGOING
    The money we were aggresively paying towards debt is now going towards our emergency fund. We won’t fully-fund it by the end of the year, but I’m counting the January 3rd paycheck towards it since January is a 3-check month (remember that I plan our monthly budget around two checks, not monthly salary).
  3. Learn about our retirement options by the end of March. DONE!
    As soon as that emergency fund is done, we’ll start maximizing our retirement savings. Since we’re just started at 40 (sigh), we have a lot of catch-up to do. This will be a big topic for our 2014 goals.
  4. Set and utilize budgets for four quarterly expenses: new tires, a new couch, a beach trip, and Christmas (we are traveling this year). HALF-WAY!
    I was foolish to think we could make these extra expenditures while every extra cent was going towards debt. We did buy 6 tires this year and take the beach trip (very frugally) as our celebration of becoming debt-free. We didn’t end up traveling for the holiday, and we’re still sitting on our 13-year-old, falling-apart couch.
  5. Meet more often to go over monthly expenditures and quarterly/yearly progress. DONE!
    We did a lot better this year to chat briefly each week about little expenses, plan ahead for monthly expenses, and celebrate our big progress. Last night, we sat down and did our 2014 Financial Goals, so you’ll see those soon.

What’s your financial goals update for 2013?

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